![]() GOOD EXAMPLE - oh hell ya you surf?! Ive been once but wasnt very good i always want to learn. You can either make urself sound interesting and rais ur chances of success or be real with then but have nothing exciting to offer. And it sounds fucked up but if ur not an interesting person either change that and find a hobby. most women spend a fortune on their hair so giving a nice gesture that they WANT to hear goes a long way. jealous." And bam theres your opener and ur topic of discussion long enough to get to know her a tad. Like if its a selfie in a car be like " is that a mustang your in?. Hey how are you( go thru their pics and find ANYTHING that you can compliment on. Here a basic opener for those that struggle. Unless of course you completely strike it off with someone and you're laughing the whole time then yeah by all means figure something else to do afterwards. You become in control of the situation by deciding to go home after the event, and it gives you both time to think if you want to go out again. Be decisive and say that it was nice getting to know the person. That awkward "soooo what do we do nextttt." thing, is. I also generally end the date after the first event. Coffee and dinner suck becajse you're forced to be face to face which is awkward. I prefer events like concerts, comedy shows, or walking around a park because you're both engaged with what's going on. To put this in perspective, if you ask them a million questions online then you're more likely to run out of things to say in person.Īgree to meet in public first and make it a quick date. Establish that you have enough interest that you'd have enough to talk about on the date somewhere. People get stuck in the "getting to know you" / 20 question trap which doesn't lead anywhere. ![]() My strategy has been to first establish some king of interest, like with my girlfriend we both liked going out to concerts so we agreed to meet at a local one. I usually push for meeting up with people sooner vs later. Moderators have full discretion in making decisions they deem to be in the best interest of the subreddit. Do not submit product, app, social media, medium, channel, or any other promotional content in the sub.This includes over-generalization of groups of people.No sexist, demeaning, objectifying language Please use dedicated subs such as /r/dating_advice or /r/relationshipsĤ.Matters primarily relating to mental health and illness (medications, therapy, anxiety, depression, suicidal ideation, etc) should be posted in a topic-specific subreddit: /r/depression, /r/anxiety, /r/socialanxiety, /r/selfesteem, /r/suicidewatch, etc. Rants / complaints about other people / nonspecific musings are off topic All posts must directly relate to the acquisition and/or application of social skills Posts and comments should be made in good faith.Ģ.Rediquette and conduct in accord with the site-wide Reddit Content Policy is a requirement of participation. ![]() Official /r/socialskills Discord server! Rules ![]() Share your favorite social skills tips, ask for advice, or offer encouragement to others on their social skills journey. ![]()
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